Have you had a bad dance? You know, one of those ones that just don’t work.
At the DJ Battle on last weekend, I got knocked out early so took the opportunity have a few dances.
And so the DJ put on a song, one I’ve never heard or danced to before. The rhythm was a bit uncomfortable – it “sounded” slow, but it was not. I think it was because it had more of a half time feel to it.
I asked a follow to dance – an advanced dancer. Like many dances, I first like to get “in tune” with my follow – almost like “calibrating” myself to them, as every follow is different. We did a few rocks to the music.
And then a few swingouts.
And then crap.
Nothing seemed to work at all! Not that we didn’t “dance”. But our dance forms and frame was totally not connecting. I wasn’t able to play and connect with the music and give us both room to improvise with each other and the music.
And being the lead, it’s really all my fault. Aargghhh!!! I tried to get back to basics, but I was probably so frustrated by then, it just didn’t work. Maybe I started thinking too hard…
We continued dancing to the end of the song, and I said a big “sorry” afterwards when leading her off the floor. We’ve had better dances before, and I had some really good dances that night, but this particular combination of song, partner and my frame of mind and (bad :)) technique just didn’t gel this time.
I felt embarrassed. I felt disappointed.
How can I make sure this doesn’t happen again?